Demystifying the significance of Kundli matching
In all Hindu marriages, Kundli matching is a common and essential custom that has been followed. The belief and logic behind this custom is that it predicts the quality of the marital life between the decided match. This important ritual has been the first step taken before finalising any match for centuries and has given great outcomes for many marriages.
The present generation has a tough time understanding and believing in astrology. The reason behind their mistrust has a lot to do with the lack of knowledge about this science. Firstly, most don’t consider astrology to be a science. And to prove their point further, they add how there are no proof or explanatory powers to support astrology. Their second point against Kundli matching has to do with how they think the positions of celestial bodies cannot describe or predict their life. There are more reasons, varying from personal experiences with a bad astrologer to what the ‘science’ community has to say about astrology.
No matter what this generation believes in, the effectiveness of Kundli matching is visible in all the successful arranged marriages in the Hindu domain. Making a fortunate match between two individuals who barely know anything could be difficult, but the power of Kundli matching helps solve this issue.
Many astrologers cannot deliver accuracy and precision. People stop believing and start doubting the power that is astrology, and it is these wannabe astrologers that are the root cause behind the decrease in the faith of the present generation.
With the best Vedic astrologers, they deeply and carefully examine the Janam Kundlis of both the individual and make a calculation that aims to empower the individual and their partner with a fulfilled married life.
The current generation struggles with understanding how Kundli matching could be beneficial for them or anyone at all. There are several important aspects explored by this custom, some of which are explained below:
To know the compatibility between the couple. An arranged marriage doesn’t keep a chance of being successful without the existence of Kundli matching. The success of any marriage between two strangers cannot be attributed to the aunty who knew you two would be just perfect together; instead, the entire credit goes to Kundli matching.
The process gives high importance to predicting the compatibility between the decided match. It doesn’t limit itself to the compatibility between their emotions, nature, behaviour, and attitude. It even looks over the affinity of their individual Kundli and how being together could merge their fate.
The most commonly used process is the ‘Ashtakoota’ process in which there are eight aspects taken into consideration for the compatibility between the partners and their Kundlis. These eight aspects each have a decided score and the maximum total comes out to be 36. What astrologers do is match the Kundlis of both the individual and score them based on these aspects. It is presumed that at least 18 of these points had to match for the relationship to be a success.
To know about the possibility of an offspring.
Neither a family nor a marriage is complete without a little product of the couple present in their arms. A child brings hope, happiness, and love into any family. Any marriage on the verge of failure could succeed with the arrival of a baby. Many people think of marrying for the want of a baby and Kundli matching predicts the possibility and the health of the baby.
From all the eight ‘Kootas,’ Nadi, the eight Gunn, is the one that predicts the chances of childbirth and if there would be any problems arising during the birth. Knowledge of such kind allows the couple to be prepared beforehand and to seek astrological remedies on time to protect their little angel.
To know the financial stability and career prospects.
Marriage is said to be the union between two souls. With marriage, their happiness, life, future, everything merges and so does their Kundli. The Kundlis of both the partner keeps the potential to influence the other’s Kundli and hence also various areas of their life. By matching the Kundlis, one gets to know the financial stability and career opportunities and also how the movement of planets in the partner’s Kundli can influence your luck. From the eight gunnas, Tara, the third gunn, predicts the luck the couple would have in the venture of their married life.
To eliminate or overcome the doshas present.
We wouldn’t want our partner’s ‘misplaced planets’ in their Kundli to affect our dreams, aspiration, and life goals, right?
If the timing of birth and position of stars and celestial bodies have created dosh in either of the individual’s Janam Kundli, like Mangal dosh or Nadi dosh or Shani dosh, etc., can affect both the individual drastically.
Such dosh can lead to an unsuccessful marriage, and thus detection before marriage is essential. The couple gets to reconsider their marriage or think of eliminating any dosh by auspicious poojas, astrological remedies, and/or holy rituals.
The ‘not-so-scientific’ method of Kundli matching looks over eight aspects of one’s married life. Health, emotion, intimacy, behaviour, compatibility, status, luck, and compassion are all looked over by the method of Gunn matching. These calculations between the two Kundlis are done with the help of the birth chart or Janam Kundli of both the individuals. The astrologers precisely read the Kundlis, look for the similarities, compatibility, and disparity in all the eight aspects, and predict how the marital life of the decided pair would be.
Astrology has been long kept under the critical eyes of many sciences and has also been disregarded as science itself, but despite all of that, the result of Kundli matching speaks for itself. Everywhere around us are successful examples of arranged marriages that credit Kundli matching for the success.
Having belief or not is something one doesn’t understand properly is secondary, what people must remember that experience speaks for itself and one should do everything in their hand to keep their marriage away from the danger of being unsuccessful.
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